I don't really know where to begin this blog, and I REALLY shouldn't have to post something like this situation. Yes, I wanted to make people more aware of what Veteran's go through when they come home, but not like this.
Last night, I was talking to someone very close to me, and this person ended up saying that the reason my husband is "so sick" (he has a TBI, he's not sick!!!) is because of KARMA!! I was so LIVID that I had to hang up on this person because they know nothing about what goes on here, and it just shows how STUPID some people can be.
My husband has a Traumatic Brain Injury, not because of something he did, not because he was a bad person, and certainly not because of Karma. He has the TBI because HE FOUGHT FOR HIS COUNTRY IN WAR. HE was in a unit that was bombed daily. There is a reason I leave him alone on January 7 of every year. Because I can't begin to know what it's like to go through what he went through. The only thing I CAN do is be there for him.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO?
Do you know what it's like to have your spouse withdraw from you because they don't know who to turn to for help?
Do you know what it's like to hear them have NIGHTMARES because of what they have seen and lived through?
Do you know what it's like to have your spouse constantly degrade themselves because they think they're dumb now and can't remember his schoolwork?
Do you know what it's like to only be able to hold them in the middle of the night because they are shaking so much from said NIGHTMARES?
Do you know what it's like?
Those are two little words that I said on my wedding day, that I live every day. It's ironic that they mean so much now in my life. Two little words that say more than you can know.
I'm not even going to begin to say that my life is easy because of this. I'm not going to begin to say I CHOOSE this life because it choose me. I am going to say that I LOVE MY HUSBAND very much. We may have our arguments, and we may not always get along, but we both know that we're there for each other.
So, before you begin to judge me for my actions, or say that someone deserved a Traumatic Brain Injury, please think of what you are saying. No one deserves this!!
I believe that God never gives you more than you can handle. I also say that God must think I'm pretty strong because, every time I think my life starts to even out, every time I think I have it handled....a little something more comes along.
If you know someone that is dealing with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, who is a Veteran, or who has a Brain Injury, please pass this along. Let them know they're not alone. Let them know that there are others who know what they're going through and that even though they think they're alone, there is always someone out there...you just gotta find them.
As for that person that said this was Karma.....GROW UP!!!