I have to say, even though I was a little on the wild side and grew up very poor, I did lead a somewhat sheltered life.
In high school, I only knew one person that was adopted. Just one.
My husband was adopted, along with his brothers and sisters.
So, why am I bringing this up now? Well, because of adoption, I found myself in a funny situation. Here's a little background:
Because of my farming interests I had a friend named Nelson on twitter.
I knew he lived in South TX, and he knew I lived in East TX. Then, he said his daughter was going to SFASU in the fall, the same college as my husband. I was excited and told him if there was anything that he wanted me to do to help her out, I would be there for him. Well, shortly after school started was her 21st birthday!! He wasn't able to come to East TX to see her, but between the both of use we made up a surprise for her.
The really funny thing...I had never SEEN her or talked to her! So, on her birthday we were talking on the phone and I asked him about some defining features so I knew who I was looking for. All I had was her name. So, when he said "she's got black hair and brown eyes, she's black" I was shocked! Not for the reasons you would think, but because he never told me that she was adopted, and I grew up at Ft. Hood, so there's all sorts of different family types there...nothing is new to me.
So, now that I knew who I was looking for, I was able to surprise her at her class!
This is the picture that we got that day:
Now, regardless of what you think of me or of bloggers, social media does do good things. Because of social media two people who had NEVER met managed to get together to surprise a third person!
I learned later that day how she came to be his daughter, and my admiration for him grew 100 times over. To see pictures of his family, you know that LOVE knows no boundaries and that adoption is a wonderful thing!
To the Jackson Family...I LOVE all of you, even though I've never met all of you.
Here is the LINK to the original post about her birthday, 2 years ago!